The unexamined life is not worth living

[Denver_2010]

Think about this...

Were you more committed to you W emotionally AFTER you took you vows, or were you committed to her prior to that?

Simple? Yup, it really is...


Weren't you really emotinally married to her before you took those vows?

I was committed to her emotionally before we M'd Cat. And yes, I can see that there was an emotional M prior to the actual legal M.

But this still does not answer the question about our vows... the vows that we spoke in front of our families.. in front of our friends.

She vowed to be faithful to me until death do us part... She gets out of that bc she decides that she doesn't want to do it anymore? That she is 'emotionally divorced'?

I say this recognizing that I vowed to love and cherish my W until death do us part. I broke these vows. I am not blame shifting.

I want to understand.