SA - I understand your nervousness about how H will react...but remember you are only protecting yourself and your kids. He is doing what he thinks is best for HIM, so why shouldn't you. Hopefully he will not get vindictive because he can't no longer "control" the situation. They do have the attitude "If you are not with me you are against me". But your lawyer seems to think that you will come out OK in this, so take some comfort in that.

(((hugs)))

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO