I cannot believe her nerve, obviously she took your offer as pursuing and is taking advantage of it.

Damn this stuff [censored], it was suggested (as my W still lives with me) that I give up the MB to her as another way to detach.

The bottom line is I don't want to sleep on the couch for next 3-6 months! Like you said, I'm not the one who's pursuing seperation!!! I may try to move to the couch for a couple weeks to see if anything changes - but I am worried it will be a big issue to move back after I've left the bed.

Have you put yoru foot down about the master, or at least told her you'd be willing to take turns?

BITS
SIC

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011