Zen, Focus! It is only a piece of paper. That is all, just paper. Put the thing on your frig and tell yourself each day that it is just a piece of paper. No human being has ever been defeated by a piece of paper unless you allow it to. A court proceeding can't defeat love, EVER! Don't let this get to you, please! For now, tuck that away and go do something for yourself. When you get back, put that piece of paper in front of you and start working on your plan to move forward. This is not the end. To borrow a line from Gritter, "Is this the hill you are going to die on?" Only you can make that choice.
Do me a favor. There will come a day when I too will get this "piece of paper." Please send me my own words when I do.
Hang in there! BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
