Just reading over your thread. It's starting to sound like Abbott and Costello's "Who's on First?" up there. LOL
So sorry you find yourself here, but I can guarantee you won't regret it. This Board has seen me through some tough times, and I've gotten priceless advice.
As Cat04 said, as time passes, you will begin to see things you like and things you don't, in both yourself and your husband. Things that you have blinded yourself to in an act of self-preservation. I began this journey dead set against divorce, and now find that I believe it is the only option open to me, as there is nothing more I can do to help H. It's up to God, and I'm only in the way.
Corvette, huh? My favorite country song goes "I dug my key into the side . . . . " Just a comment. LOL OH! and the country song "I Pray for You". The words are so inspiring. If you haven't read or heard them, look them up. What is with these people who can't be happy with who they are and the age they are???
As you've probably figured out, this is a long, long journey, so strap yourself in darlin', it's goin to get bumpy.
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011