please help on what i need to do.

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BITS, i need some help:

I know that I am in the process of trying to get myself together. But being an analytical person, i am always trying to figure out how my wife left me. It fits the usual WAW that DR book talks about.

But what i cannot understand is that my W and I talked about our daughter's new school just 2 days before i left to visit my parents and she left to her parents place and filed the divorce. One of our friends who talked to her told me that apparently she had been planning this for 3 months.

I guess what i cannot understand is how and why did she act like everything was okay? Knowing my nature i do appreciate the fact that she let this down on me when i was with my family. She told me that i would get more support from my family. somehow i feel like i am slipping down a little today. I guess it is because W and i have a talk today regarding the divorce.