All good advice. I am on the opposite end of that conundrum in my sitch - I have written to my W those letters until my fingers cannot move anymore, I have sat in front of her and cried in apology until there are no tears left, I have travelled down the river of sorrow and been drenched by all of the rapids in that river, and she knows it. There has not been on tear from her in 5 months, not one. She has left and is not coming back no matter what I say or do and absolutely refuses to talk to me and has said so in no uncertain terms. When you W says to you -I am NOT talking to you don't bring anything up -that is a hard one to ignore.
So my only recourse is to show my love and devotion to her by my consistent actions and not by my words. I can only be her best friend and greatest supporter in all the I do. It is not an easy road to be on when the one you love rejects all that you do and refuses to talk to you for even 5 minutes after 33 years together - that my friends on here is a hard day.
I offer this from the words of someone who knew tenacity.
"Never Never Never Never - give up" - Winston Churchill
and some words of wisdom from a pretty smart guy
"When you think you have exhausted all possibilities remember this - you haven't" - Thomas Edison
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M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
BITS (of Fruit) Firstlove
"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined" - Thoreau
