OK, I lost it and did some very bad dbing last night. Some texting went back and forth, initiated by me where I expressed that I knew H was trying to integrate ow into the kid's lives; however I was upset that he couldn't give our D her one special night. He indicated that he believes their impression has changed about ow and that they have discussed the issue at lenght this week. He then went on to say "if you knew all that she has done for our D this week and for her B-day you may change your mind."
Uggh ... I lost it. I said I wasn't going to have a discussion with a 20 year old about how to raise our D and the spewing just continued from there. I just want to scream. This kid has no responsibilities in the world, she doesn't own a vehicle, have a mortgage, nothing.
He goes on to say "i know this isn't easy for any of us" ... blah blah. Really, what about this isn't easy for him??? Does he really think that?
Me: 41 STBXH: 36 D: 11 S: 9 BOMB 12/2009 SEPARATED 5/2010 D SERVED BY ME 9/2010 FINAL D When I'm ready
