fobd, that's almost exactly how I put it and then it just got bad from there. I can't help but feel that this COULD turn into something more.

Now I'm faced with the dilemma of an ultimatum vs trust. We are to move to the state WHERE this OM is. I want to say cut it off or I'm not moving. Not sure what that would get me.

The other part of me wants to trust her. She's not the cheating type and she's not missing that part. She texts a girlfriend even more than this guy but STILL it's a dude...

I've even talked to him via email. He's assured me that he has no interest. She has helped him through his issues with his GF and exW. I want to believe him but I'm a guy too...there are almost always ulterior motives...


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE