Alamo, I would start slow with boundaries, and work on one thing at a time. Trying to change too much at once will feel forced.
Remember, a boundary is an internal thing you set and only enforce if it is crossed. It should not seem like retaliation, because you enforce your boundaries in a very calm and collected manner, without any kind of anger or spite.
This is where being decisive comes in, you are not a decisive man if the boundaries keep moving. You will not be respected if you set boundaries and then do not enforce them.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
