Bolt, Still all very, very good progress. I don't know who the "sniper" was who jumped in, but that wasn't anything a little "artillery" couldn't fix.....
Thinks are still looking very good, but keep in mind, it is still the 1st quarter and there is still alot of game to be played.
As for texting the OM, I have struggled with that for weeks. I know my W is still conducting her EA via text as she has not denied it. But, we are separated and living in different houses, so there is not much I can do about it. But, your sitch is different. Please don't get too crazy with my suggestion, but you may want to stand your ground with the notion that it needs to stop. I don't think there is anything wrong with you politely asking again for it to stop. Use your DB skills and approach the topic carefully and honorably. My point is that considering the progress you have made, I don't think it would be "out of line" to ask for it to stop for good this time. You may even want to pose the request in this manner: "Hey, since we are both working so hard right now to get things in our house in order, maybe you might consider putting that distraction aside for now. It would help me to feel that we both have our heads in the right place." JMO.
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...