Lost, Man, I am so far behind on everything tonight. Your "Captain" is asleep at the wheel.
Hey, I do want you to know I was following you last night, but I couldn't reply. At one point, I tried to jump in with some words of encouragement, but the "reply" button was gone. I was screaming at the computer (like that was going to help) trying to get something through. But, I was so glad to see that you had our "ace," 2step with you. I told you guys... BITS never walk alone.
I am so freaking excited for you. But, tread carefully. Now is the most dangerous time for the both of you. 2step is correct. Somebody is going to have to do the 180 and it won't be him. He sounds like he can barely handle what is on his plate now. So, pick up that flag and be the one to do the heavy lifting here. DB like you never have before. Make him understand he can come home, but there are going to be some new rules in place. Not the kind of rules that govern who will take out the trash or who will pick up dinner. The kind of rules that will ensure that the two of you will love each other in a way that can't be broken again. Rules that will make sure that unconditional love will reside and preside in your home going forward. If he can't yet agree to that, reconsider your path for now.
Wow, between you and Denver tonight, I can barely speak... well, type. Ahhh, you know what I mean. Please let us know how things go tomorrow. Remember, you have to do what is best for you. Don't rush into anything you are not ready for just yet.
YAAAAAHHHHOOOOO! Looks like we might soon have another plaque on the wall next to Shaves!!!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
