Originally Posted By: Harrier
Bolt, JTB, XYZ,


2. Bolt - do not be so eager to ML. Believe me. Two months is nothing. You have kids right? Remember around the time they were born, you did the 2-3 month thing easy. She will come around.
Two weeks ago she was ready to leave. In my situation, bout 6 weeks after my wife dropped the D-bomb, she asked me to ML. Before that I wasn't even thinking about it and I wasn't sure even if I wanted to start up again. It was very far from my mind and I believe my W sense that. Of course,I messed it up and we haven't ML for six weeks.



Thanks for the perspective. You're exactly right. I have to keep looking at where I just was and how things are better.

Heck, just a few days ago, I was asking her to cuddle. Now she does it because she wants to. Big change for sure.

I'll lay off the pressure - on both her and myself.


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE