After a while, he returned that "he was just trying to figure out a relationship with another woman and he likes my wife only as a friend." He even said that he is encouraged by how me (bolt) and her were getting along better.
hrm.. even if she said she isn't attracted to him she may feel some rejection based on his response.. possibly a good opportunity to show her some attention she's lacking from OM.
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This guy is only a friend whom she doesn't even talk to that much.
if she doesn't communicate with him that much then perhaps the relationship will fizzle out on it's own if she's not getting her needs met, you need to fill that void.
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BUT I'm super insecure.
aww i'm sorry bolt, these situations shake our confidence but you seem to have some really great qualities, draw on that, be the man she chooses.
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I know I've said that before but maybe I'm just being tested...this definitely [censored].
it does suk indeed.. but you've done your homework, so ace the test with flying colours !!
what is your gut telling you to do ? what have you done so far that has moved you forward and not backwards?
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