As the Bolt Turns

[Bolt]

well now don't get too excited for me.

I come home from giving her her space and she's texting the guy again. She even told me.

I was pretty upset. I thought that we went over this. Once again, she thought I said something else - oh I thought you said I shouldn't text him about his situation...excuse...

So I said, text him right now and ask him if he would have sex with you. She did. She said basically, "...no strings attached, would you have sex with me?"

After a while, he returned that "he was just trying to figure out a relationship with another woman and he likes my wife only as a friend." He even said that he is encouraged by how me (bolt) and her were getting along better.

Not going to read into anything there but she called my bluff...

She assured me that she isn't attracted, in the least bit to this dude. We went back and forth where I said, this is where it starts. I told her point blank before to cut it off. I don't know how much clearer I can be?

Am I wrong here? She said that I have to trust her. This guy is only a friend whom she doesn't even talk to that much.

My issue isn't too much with her but with him. I don't know him. He seems nice enough and I KNOW he's a bit flirty and talks to a lot of girls as friends. He's not a good-looking dude in the least bit and has zero future. (Tooting my own horn - I'm just the opposite in both)

BUT I'm super insecure. I asked her what she wants me to do? She said trust her.

Well, I have to. I know I've said that before but maybe I'm just being tested...this definitely [censored].

When she showed me what he texted back, I said I'm sorry and she said she wasn't ready to accept it yet.

What's the addage? One step forward, two steps back?

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