Hi My name is Rue, Last monday my H served me with d papers. I am devastated. We have been married for 29 years, have 3 adult children who are out of the house. I confirmed by suspicions were confirmed in december when i found out my H was having an out of state affair. I confronted him and the world started spinning. He immediately ask for a D. He said nothing was fixable. He said all of this was my fault, i treated him badly, didnt appreciate him, called him names, etc.... This was not his first affair. I dont know what to do. Is it over because he filed divorce papers. He doesnt want to seek therapy and all i hear (when im able to talk to him) is he doesnt "think" its fixable, but wont even try. Please can anyone who might have been in a similar situation help.
