Antonia - glad you feel better. About being "dark"...it's for you and you need it now more the ever. I just remembered what GAG said about her time post divorce...she also had no contact with her XH and look at them now...friends again...I guess my point is that you never know what the future will bring.

Take care of yourself

(((hugs)))

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M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO