I didn't expect anything like this to happen especially so "soon" I had always heard of men going through something similiar to what my husband or STBEXH (don't even know what to call him) in their 40's. But I must say his actions and words seem to be very similiar to a crisis. For some reason, I just don't believe what he is telling me. He claims that for a year he has been unhappy and I think back and go hunh? Really? Everything that he say's and does is to convince me that the marriage is over. Yeah we had our problems but now it is almost like he is purposely trying to sabotage any bit that we had left. I am so devastated. He constantly texts and calls me, just as casual as ever! I don't know if I want to hang in there and fight or if I want to move and find someone who appreciates me.
and thanks Jack! I will def check out the resources!
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
