Hopeless,

Don't make any decisions about M right now.

Educate yourself and make informed decisions.

I knew about DB years ago when a friend was going through it. In support of her I read the blogs. Then it happened to me. I was in
denial for a long time. So I had the luck of doing DB for a long time (while H was having an A) without really knowing it. By the time I woke up, it was on its way out. So the bulk of the work had been done.

Don't make any major decisions.

Breathe and let the dust settle.

There are a lot of people here who can help. Many of us have used the DB techniques and can tell you our experiences.

MZ


M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.