Here is my thread:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2128548#Post2128548

After reading more I think this is what I am dealing with. I want to understand this more. Any and all opinions appreciated. I need to understand this more, I am lost...

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