LIS - point taken (not about the beach because I'm going to keep rubbing it in - once the big quake comes and I'm underwater, you can rub it back in - although I am POSITIVE your mortgage is a ton less than mine - for that I am HUGELY jealous....)
BUT
on topic.
Funny thing just happened a little bit ago. Just to show you all how things can get better.
W is home today and she likes to have her "space". I was working upstairs but had a question so I came downstairs and sat next to her for a bit. After we chatted, she showed me something online. The kids came down and I still sat there. Then she said, "Ok, get up! I'm done."
I didn't even think about it as bad or anything. I knew she had work to do and wasn't put off at all.
I went to workout and then came back.
She APOLOGIZED for saying that to me How dang funny! I didn't even think about it but it bothered her that she thought she treated me badly.
I do like this new W along with new Bolt. What I now have to do is to remember to thank her for thinking about me that way. It's more in her love language but still, very thoughtful...
oh and one more thing, LIS - Off to the beach (couldn't resist)
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
(not about the beach because I'm going to keep rubbing it in - once the big quake comes and I'm underwater, you can rub it back in - although I am POSITIVE your mortgage is a ton less than mine - for that I am HUGELY jealous....)