2Step, it's not a bad way to think. Like Michelle said, hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. But again, you know that divorce isn't the end of the road. And that's important.
I'm chuckling at your boundary list and the fact that you might want to reevaluate them. So many of us go through that. If they do this, I'm done. If they do that, I'm done. MWD strongly suggested that we write ourselves a list that is entirely different. If they do this, I know I'm on the right path. If they do that, I know I'm on the right path. Where's THAT list 2Step?? She told us to write it down.
