Thanks 2Step. I didn't really expect that anyone would be on at 3 or 4 in the morning... or whatever time I posted that.

I did read your post over on my thread. Thanks. I hope to respond to everyone about tonight.

I want to quickly respond to your question about asking your W if she turned in the D paperwork. I just want to remind you of something that you said to your W the other day:

“I was glad to make it, I know I have called before and I am sure I was sorry before but maybe I was sorry for the wrong reasons. Last night I was in complete peace with letting you know that I was ok with whatever you decide to do.

Be true to you words 2Step... Show your W that you are truly sincere in what you speak.

Asking her about the paperwork would be contrary to being at at "peace" and "ok" with whatever she decides to do.

Asking her isn't going to change her choice, one way or the other.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce