Thanks for the insight especially from a womans angle. Lis I need validating more than my W sometimes. I am turning into such a woman. HA.
At this point I think she will go through the D just to tell herself she did it. Almost like proving to herself she was strong enough to follow through. That would be my first boundary test.
I have always stated I have two breaking points
1. OM/PA 2. Divorce being final
I now have to re-evaluate my stance if this happens. I hope I am wrong about this but the fact that she initiates is comforting. It is so much easier to see other peoples small victories while failing to see my own.
