well, wife and I had some time together today. She started by asking me "you don't really think I am coming back do you". I responded by saying I don't expect you to come back. I want you to be happy about your life and yourself. She went on to say that she is so very much happier now that she doesn't have to concern herself about pleasing me or worring about what I think. She went on to talk about divorce. The conversation changed tone a bit. and I told her that if she feels she needs to file then I cant stop her. I told her that I feel that she needs to give the total seperation a little time to see how things go for her. thing got a littler deeper then. She went on to say that her and her C have been talking about the damage to her in the past. She says she doesn't think she can ever trust me with her feelings again. She really wants out at this time, and we shall see. I told her the biggest thing is we are both happy in our lives. She said she will give it a couple weeks, but "I may feel that I need to get this done" She also feels that the ring will come off soon. I DBed pretty darn good, but her feelings right now are that she has never been happier. She said "I told you that you wouldnt like the real me"
