We are fundamentally stupid Fix.

Look we have been dancing for awhile now, right?

I suggest something and you poo poo it... smile (just how it feels at times)

I know your sticking it out for your D.

Change your approach when you talk to her.

Want an example?

Look at Scylla's thread.

Approach your W sideways, from a different angle, a different style, a different tone.

If your sticking around for your D, don't you think you owe it to yourself and HER to do your best to try and improve the marriage?

Your talking years still man. Years, of...just existing.



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