From the Darkness Comes the Light!

[MichelleLT]

There's no reason to bring it up. She knows you don't want the D.

And at this point it really doesn't matter. It changes nothing. Even if she feels compelled to file them because she doesn't yet trust that things could be different, your DBing doesn't change. It's not like a D happens overnight. There is time to stop it even if she does file them.

By sending them back, you are showing her that things can be different. That what she wants, and how she feels are important. That her happiness is most important to you.

Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.

It's possible despite these baby steps that she will file them. But it's not the end of anything. Your DBing would go on. Don't overlook the progress you have made just because she's not ready to say she wants to reconcile yet.