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You know what else I've learned? They don't necessarily want us to fix or help with things but just listen. Pretty easy, huh?


And with THAT you are so far ahead of the game.

I forgot about that part Bolt.

When my wife starts to talk about a problem, I listen, after a little while, I simply ask her, are you looking for advice, or are you wanting me to listen?

I have learned, that when women talk about problems, its to figure things out outloud, more often than not, to find a sympathetic ear.

When men talk, its to get advice, because they ran out of ideas, more often than not.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet