It took an extreme amount of courage to post this denver and to expose your heart and your soul and confess the truth. Thank you for your honesty. I'm still struggling with taking responsibility for my actions in my marriage, i too have a tendency to sugarcoat the bad.. but I see now that I have to face it no matter how painful it will be. I NEED to be able to recognize my faults and my contribution to the failure of my marriage before I can move on. I need to forgive myself first and then move forward to forgive my husband.

I learn so much from you all.

god bless denver.


Me-41 H-34
T-9
M-8
10/21/10-BOMB
11/01/10-H moves out
01/27/12-H files

"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"