MHL - Working through the same things over the past couple of days. Avoiding a trial (hopefully). I didn't want to sign because I don't believe in divorce - but my lawyer added the following language to the agreement:
Respondent does not feel marriage was "irretrievably broken." Respondent does not believe in divorce and does not want a divorce. Respondent understands state law and that petitioner will be granted the divorce regardless of Respondent's position. Respondent was committed and faithful to petitioner and to the family and marriage.
With that language, that I reviewed with my children, I will sign the dissolution settlement documents and end 25 years of marriage and 29 years of togetherness. From age 18 to 47, I have loved this man and tried with everything I have to give him happiness, love, contentment, support, kindness. It is over.
I am very sorry for your circumstances today - however I RESPECT so much your values, beliefs, and grace. May the upcoming days bring you peace.
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
