Had a good night last night with W. She came to bed and I was watching TV. She said something to me, I turned off the TV and turned towards her. We ended up talking for about an hour. Ok, she talked for 55 minutes and I talked for 5 minutes....LOL. When we went to sleep, she said "thanks for listening to me ramble." I said "I love listening to you."
But still no kiss goodnight. Uggggghhh. Baby steps.
Dude, that is awesome! Seriously. Do you know how much that meant for you to turn off the tv and LISTEN to her?
HUGE!
I did exactly that during the National Championship. I KNOW that really hit home with her.
Not sure how quickly that will pay dividends but it will. Just keep doing it!
You know what else I've learned? They don't necessarily want us to fix or help with things but just listen. Pretty easy, huh?
I think that is where a ton of affairs come from. There is some new dude who is interested in our woman and all he really does is LISTEN. I hear that from a TON of WAS on the other board.
Well, guess what? Don't let some OM do that. WE should do that.
That's some motivation
Keep it up!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
