Thanks for the words..dbmod, but she won't really talk at all, i have been trying to listen, but nothing about anything short of the "mechanics" of our kids comes up..who picks up who where and when..things like that..
So, i am really empty and lost right now, and she is pushing to "sit down" and get a plan together to get moving on the divorce? I am not sure I am clear after the reading of the LRT, both in the book, and the links you provided, what course of action that might represent? Agree and sit down with her and start dividing things? or say I am not ready ? or avoid it altogether?
Comments from anyone?
Me-43,W-41 Married 18 years Together 20 years S12, S13 Wife EA - 3-2009 Reconciled WAW-9-2009 Reconciled again 2-2010 Bomb- 12/30/2010 Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011 BITS