Thanks for the words..dbmod, but she won't really talk at all, i have been trying to listen, but nothing about anything short of the "mechanics" of our kids comes up..who picks up who where and when..things like that..

So, i am really empty and lost right now, and she is pushing to "sit down" and get a plan together to get moving on the divorce? I am not sure I am clear after the reading of the LRT, both in the book, and the links you provided, what course of action that might represent? Agree and sit down with her and start dividing things? or say I am not ready ? or avoid it altogether?

Comments from anyone?


Me-43,W-41
Married 18 years
Together 20 years
S12, S13
Wife EA - 3-2009
Reconciled
WAW-9-2009
Reconciled again 2-2010
Bomb- 12/30/2010
Asked for a Divorce 2-8-2011
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