Habit, I am in your same sitch except 2 months further along. I know it is hard but you have to stop caring so much about her actions. If you must know what the future holds then go file and get on with your life. I want to do that but am holding out hope for the sake of the kids. They are beginning to show the signs of wear and tear from the broken marriage and that hurts more than my wife turning her back on me. Take the kids and get away from her for the weekend. You will be amazed at how much better you feel just being out of the house.
Keep of the faith. I wish I cared as much as you do but at the this point I am over the relationship part of my marriage-just want the kids to be ok which is why I have not filed.
Me:44 Wife:41 S11: D14 married 20 years bomb 7/25/2010 she filed 7/15/2011 headed for trial in early 2012
