Better Days ARE Coming For All of Us...

[ScaredinCanada]

Great attitude LIS, but agree with Zengypsy.

I just don't see it right now, I feel like things will get much more difficult before they get better.

I cannot imagine how painful it's going to be to remove my W from my benefits, beneficiary of my investments, put the house for sale, split up assets, when she buys her OWN house, seperate vacations, not sleeping in the same bed, her removing her wedding rings, day we actually split, being literally alone, not seeing my children everyday...and so on.

I try to enjoy the moments I have now, and remember that if I literal seperation is to occur we are looking at September (right before the kids go back to school) for it happen.

All the little steps from now to then that I listed above will be horrible. Heck I've already started making plans to move in with my BF in September (all tentative of course).

I do have some optimism that when the nice weather and summer holiday approaches the extra Vitamin D may help wake my W from her walking coma...