Well, thanks to 2Step and a couple of "get your head out of your a$$" talks from a few of you, I navigated my way through last night...
He did stay. Not in our bed, but that wasn't really an option that I gave him. We had a good time. Watched some tv, laughed and fell asleep. He left this morning and there was an awkward hug. Not sure what to make of that other than I don't get much of them so I'll take it awkward or not. We made plans for Saturday for him to come over and help me around the house. He didn't take a stitch of the dry cleaning with him.
I don't have a clue where any of this is heading. But at least the "toxic" atmosphere is gone for now. He's still got such a sadness about him. I understand. I do too. But I try not to let it show.
A special thanks to 2Step for helping me navigate this one. I really started panicking last night. It's weird I get like this with a person I've been with 12 years. But it is what it is...
Prayers and love to you all. I hope you have a great day!!!
LIS
I like the name of your thread title - if I only I had some belief in that today....
Glad your night with your H seems to have gone fairly well and that you held no expectations. Keep it going - you are a star!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
