I just can't take the not knowing anything anymore. I have no idea of what her plans are. I don't know which one of us is staying or going. I have know idea what her plans are for the kids. I have no idea what to expect, or what to prepare for.

I am not going to whine about this not being fair, but I have to have some sort of plan for my future. I cannot just make these plans without knowing from her what her ideas are.

I wish I could make plans without her, but it just doesn't work that way. She does have her share of control, as do I.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair