Hi Zengypsy Thanks for your message and for reaching out to me. It's nice to hear from someone and thank you again for the patience in reading my long post. I bought Michele's book on 'Sex-Starved Wife'. Thank you for recommending the 'Divorce Remedy' book, i will definately check out online as i didn't come across that title in the local bookstore.
I have heard of hormonal imbalance in men and low sex drive and did inform him on that before. In fact i used to work in a pharmaceutical company, where i had internal doctors, specialists, medication info and all the resources which i checked out on. I even gave him reading materials and advice which he just turned a deaf ear on, or tell me that it is so expensive to see a doctor. I really wonder why though since he works few jobs (we are not hard up for money) and tells me its expensive and waste of money'...even when i told him i am willing to bear the costs and go with him. Sometimes i wonder if there is such a thing as 'no sex drive' though since it is non-existent. Of course i do wonder if he gets it somewhere else since according to him he never has any problems except when with me.
You are right..he is still habouring resentment towards me for what i said which of course i always try to validate. But the thing that really hurts me is that they are really for very petty things. And of course, i try my best to change after that..but i can't take back what i said or undo thing. Funny thing is that i always thought that most women are more emotional than man and the 'suffer in silence' type.
He keeps saying that it is 'psychological'..but how do you overcome that then?..Anybody has any idea? Just seems to me that his problem is just 'me'.
