Denver....

First step is already done....

You being honest with yourself...

All of us here can only go by your words, and you can be as honest as you want to be..

The ONE person that matters is that you were honest with yourself...

Grit is correct...

Now is the time to ask why....

Why do you want to save something that you so clearly gave up on long ago ?

The best part is that you can use any reason you want, the fact is.....

You are here, for whatever reason...

And you appear to want to change.

Now is the time to put the marriage on the back burner and work on yourself, to be the better option....

To do this, you must focus on you.

You have taken great strides in your time here...

Have you reached your finish line ?


To be honest, you sound like a man that had been mired in a severe life-transition himself, not knowing what or who he wanted.

To process this, I don't believe it can be done in a lump sum kinda way...

You need to deal with all of these issues one at a time, to fully understand them....


Tell us where you want to start...

To quote one of my favorite movie lines....



I'm your Huckleberry....

Say when ....