Well my illness is ending--I am back at work this week but still have bronchitis.
As for my exH, I haven't heard anything in a week or more and I"m in the best place I've been in awhile as a result. It is clear to me that I cannot be in contact with him without suffering, so I'm 100% dark, and I'm liking that very much.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying