Lotus, she's trying her best to do things behind closed doors. Recently she has started saying that I'm spying and getting into her affairs, which I haven't and just don't have the energy or capacity to do so. Not sure if it's related but lately when my wife has my son in her room, she'd shut the door. It used to be an open-door policy, so our son could come out and see daddy (or mommy, vice versa) but now, I don't know what's going on.
