Given tbe proper opportunity, I'd actually tell her, "I'm very sorry for my actions."
Then learn the art of STFU and prove it to her.
Given time, your consitent actions will show her she can return safely, without holding this over her head...and if you do and are still posting here I'll be the first one to tell you are being a jacka$$. Deal?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK