Lostnhurt I suggest you check out the mid life crisis forum. Take a look at the resources Cadet has posted and see if it doesn't sound like your wife.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.