Wife left me -

[lostnhurt]

Hi Country_Song, your situation sounds just like mine. She started Medical Assisting School in Feb last year, May I got the 'bomb', suspected this guy from day one, she denied, blamed me for no longer being in love with me, she hid it very well, till a few things happened, and it was pretty obvious, and still denied.

mykarma, your W took your daughter from you for two months and you still haven't seen her? How can that be? Thats just totally unacceptable, I would use every resource I have if my W ever pulled that on me. Thats just awful and I hate hearing stories like this.

LIS, it just sounds like my W is happier than she's been in while. Instead of being a wife and mom, she's out having a good time with OM, new hobbys, spends lots of time with him, shes doing all the things she AND WE used to do when her and I first dated and before we had kids.

One of our many problems is we've never made any time for ourselves since the girls where born, no date nites, no movie nites, I worked, she took care of the girls. All work and no play makes...

She didn't even want to try, we went to counseling once, she didnt want to go any more, no date nites, she's just been done. She says sometimes people just fall out of love.

She even makes suggestions that I should date this one girl we've both known for a long time. A colleague of mine, who I am friends with, whom I generally only see at trade shows. She works in the same biz as me.

Thats why I think my M is over, esp since as time passes since she's moved out, she seems to moving on with her life.

And yeah the co-parenting thing, she just does what she wants, I just hear more things from the girls every time I see them again. Again yesterday she bought them more toys, she buys them pretty much what ever they ask for it seems lately.

Ill be around more, advice has helped me here in the past very much.

I made my first post here in June, and things have changed so much since then, looking back now, I wish I could change certain things I did and we might be in different place, maybe not.