Well, the dinner and skype with the kids did the trick....in much better shape now. Had a long talk with my buddy's W about my sitch...she's a Ph.D psych student and she was pretty impressed by the realizations i've made. The advice she gave me was dead on with the principles of DB.
I'll definitely check out that book...reading a book never hurt anyone...I certainly have learned that lesson.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.