M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I did not reach my goal...sending a text. The day before I made it. Tomorrow I will try again. I will tell myself 9 times in the car...nothing is soooo important, such as dinner, that I need to text him.
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
VS - Tommorrow is another day. You will reach it tommmorrow!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
My goal for today is to a random act of kindess for someone. to me that could mean holding the door for someone, letting car into my lane of driving, helping a co-worker to just saying thank you to someone.
Let's see how I go.
I like this one, especially if it's new. I bet this goal keeps coming back a couple of times until it becomes second nature.
I always open doors for people just because. Unless they don't say thank you, then I slam it in their chops. You should see their reaction to that!
Sounds like what I do. When I hold the door open for people and they don't say thank you, I say Your Welcome. They look at me like wtf?! It's SO awesome!!!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
My goal setting today went very well. I just got home about a 1/2 hour ago. It needed to happen for both of us and I think I handled the conversation well. My H will see my changes thru osmosis if nothing else! My SIL seemed very impressed with allt he work that I have done. Apparently it showed thru!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
I did not reach my goal...sending a text. The day before I made it. Tomorrow I will try again. I will tell myself 9 times in the car...nothing is soooo important, such as dinner, that I need to text him.
That one is a TOUGH one for sure.
I had that a few weeks back. Here's how I accomplished it. One hour at a time! Seriously. I tried a little at a time and it worked. Eventually, I just stayed busy and forgot the whole thing.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
My goal was pretty easy to accomplish since I was busy all day. My workout was at the beach and then I read at the beach too. I took a little snooze at the beach as well.
Sense a trend?
Here's the good side effect.
When I went for a run, I left the phone on silent in the car. I completely forgot about it when I read and then headed home.
I was home around 5pm when I was thinking...hmmm...haven't heard from the W today. Just then, she called. I told her I was just thinking about her. She asked where I was all day because she tried to call twice.
It's all a game, right?
Unintended but unavailable all the same
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
