We went to happy hour. In short it was good. Talked a lot about him. Afterwards, when we got home, before he had to leave, I was putting on my PJ's. He asked if they were his...we have the same pair. I said no, my are exs and yours are bigger. I made a joke and said I like to steal people's pajama's. As he was leaving he said "I guess it runs in the family"
Back story, and VERY IMPORTANT. We got married when my daughter was 12. She hit a hard point at 15, drug rehab, stole his credit card ect....He always blamed me for being in "denial" After her stint in drug rehab she went to live with her dad. Now she is 20 years old.
She has a 3 month old baby, owns her own home has a newer car (given to her by my parents) and is just about to graduate collage in May.
I have always felt that he was jealous that this "bad" kid was able to pull herself out and get things without my help. He makes rude comments like "I guess everyone has forgotten that she once was a drug addict and a thief" It has gotten to a point where I avoid talking about her or my granddaughter, Stella, to avoid any rude comments.
Him getting over my daughter's past is hard for him. The fact that my daughter went to her father's after rehab crushed him, because her father is a deadbeat(owes me over $400,000 in CS) and he paid for everything that she could ever want, and then she stole from him.
My mom thinks that his resentment is to large for him to get over without a huge price that I will pay...not being able to have a life with my daughter and Stella openly without snide remarks.
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
