Had a bad dream last nite, wife was pregnant with someone elses kid. Way too real. Not cool at all. Guess I still have some detaching to do. We are fixing to tell the kids about our separation on Monday nite, how fitting. Not looking forward to that. Part of me wants her to tell them, because she is the one leaving. But I want the kids(D5 S4) to be hit as gently as possible with this. I dont care if I have to do all the talking. Does anyone have any experience with doing this? Do you tell them it is temporary? do you leave as much to their imagination as possible? Do you give them the brutal reality?
