Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

[tdb68]

Still reeling from the last couple of days. Went to see mt MC alone, and she told me to home and acknowledge my W's wishes for the divorce.. I read somewhere on here (or in DR) about a 180, and she told me "agreeing" would be just that, but that I needed to put some distance between W and I, since she has been trying to be "friends" while all along she wanted the D, just wouldn't say it. She told me to make sure we were sleeping in different rooms, not do anything together, etc... This seems counterintuitive to what I think is right ? and I understand from my reading of DR? Or am I not understanding what the Lat Resort Technique should be? Should I be completely pulling back and trying to get her to reconsider? I am very confused at this point? After reading all of the posts, i thought we were in the "piecing" mode, I guess not? Can anyone comment?