Is he cake eating right now? What are the interactions between the two of you while he is there? What is his purpose for coming? What do you want to accomplish from this visit?
These are question I would ask myself. I think you had mentioned earlier in your thread how you were distant from him if that is the case is a 180 to be closer? FOBD went through this part I didn’t when my W left she left!
Keep it simple tonight if he shows. Didn’t you mention something to me about patience tonight? Well, patience dear Lis. I am curious as to why he is coming. I would only let him come if you feel right about doing it. DB is what works and eliminating what hasn’t been working.
Calm Consistent Patience Validate Self-Respect Keep those close tonight
