I'm with you. My holidays really sucked this year as well. W left right after Thanksgiving.
I've decided to get my W nothing for Valentines Day. It's be the first time since 1984 that she didn't get anything from me.
Hang in there. We're in this together.
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13